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The Lazy Salesman in Jan 2002, The Worst Customers I Ever Had, Fill the Funnel, Negotiation, Collecting NOs, Thinking Time, Number 76 of my Selling Manifesto, Change Now!, Sales Job Interviews, Fail, Cluetrain, Action, The Perfect Customer, Integrity, Closing, Objection Handling, Summarising, Objectives, Rapport, Networking, Decisiveness, Qualifying.

The Lazy Salesman in Feb 2002,  Thinking  Aloud, Positioning, Honesty, Move On, Practising what I Preach?, Doing the Business – Networking, Issues and Personal Wins, Small Acorns, 4:2 Rule, Conscious Competence, Question, Listen, and Summarise, Sales Teams, Hunters and Farmers, The Competition, The Truth about Selling!, What’s in it for Me? (WIIFM), The Best Salespeople I know, Presenting, Calling High, Networking Again, Birthday – Ghost Story, Little Things make a Big Difference, Difficult Customers, Prospecting, Hot (Cheesy) Tips, What Irritates me as a Client.

The Lazy Salesman in March 2002; Who Wouldn’t I Work For?, Sex Sells, End Users, Cheesy Closes, High Risk or Low Risk, High Level Contacts, The Hook, Contact K.I.T., Pricing, Risk, Contracts, Selling Something You Don’t Believe In, Corporate DNA, Good News, Rejection, Calling High Level Contacts, Good Days and Bad Days, In the Client’s Shoes (The Observers learn the most), Advance not Continuation.

The Lazy Salesman in April 2002; Wait and They Did Come!!, Persist or Walk Away, Prospecting from Cold, Wait and They will come!, Stamina, Involve the Audience, One Thing Each Day, Luck, Good Selling Organisations, Be your Word, Be Honest with Yourself, More Corporate DNA and Zipf’s Law, Smile, Exceed Expectation, Shut Up Tony, Cardbox, Grassroots Selling, Persist and Have a Dream,  Pick an Onerous Task, Guilt, Style, Good Will, Mind Expanding Questions!, Tenacity and Lunch, Recovering Lost Momentum, Competing Customers, Selling Pranks.

The Lazy Salesman in May 2002: Contact, Resource Availability Close, Hardware Store, SPACER, My own Call Reluctance, Greetings and Handshakes, How much to you care?, Advancing after a Good Meeting, What Goes Around Comes Around, Concept to Cash, The Perfect Supplier, Follow-Up, All Talk and No Product, Elio the Photographer, Battles and Wars, Dissatisfied Customer, Crooks, Exhibition Leads, Small Acorns Conversations, The P.A font of all Knowledge, Practising What I Preach, Don’t Let Things Drift, Human Touch, Dreams Really Do Come True, Find Your Market.

The Lazy Salesman in June 2002: Lost Leaders, Loss Leaders, My Sales Call Reluctance, Can you talk?, Cover your bases, Selling Should be Effortless,  9 out of 10 people just aren’t interested, Selling Picks and Shovels, Tony the Café Owner, Playing 2 games of chess, Selling Ratios, Professionals Sort, Amateurs Convince, Onerous Tasks, Marketing your website, Internet Marketing, Struggling On, Time, where does it go to?, Prospecting is Non-Urgent and Important, Sell Better or Qualify Out!,  Easy to do business with, Is Selling Manipulating?, Big Coincidence, Revenge Referrals, Engaging, Can you help me?,Trial Close.

The Lazy Salesman in July 2002: Small Things, Hang in There, Selling Motivation, Stick at It, Gap in the Market, More Contact, Anticipation.

The Lazy Salesman in August 2002: The Perfectionist Salesman, What would you do if money was no object?,  The True Cost of Business, Good Clients, Run Like Hell if you see a Bow Tie, I have a dream, Heart and Soul, Check is out with former buyers, Good Job Multiplier, What’s Your Job?, Ask what is the key issue, Keep Prospecting.

The Lazy Salesman Sept 2002: Convincer or Qualifier?, Success, Mission Statements, Cardbox, Getting back to your client, Face to Face, Email of Phone?, Give me a chance, Pest or Professional, Good Service, Referrals and Networking, Why I hate CRM Systems, Sharpen The Saw, Women, Be nice to the kids, The point of no return, Life’s too serious to be taken seriously, Very Lazy Salesman, Good Service, Prospect and Network first, Block the time out for Prospecting and Networking, You, Creating Chaos, Not Trying to Become Picasso!, Stretch Objective.

The Lazy Salesman in Oct 2002: Born Natural, Goal Setting Yet Again!, Creative Break??, Outlook Contacts, Email Qualification, Gut Fell and Instincts, Partners and Third Parties, Persistence, Time Planning, ABC’s of Relationship Selling, ABC’s of Selling, Take it Easy, Definitions of Marketing, Thinking Time or Idle Time?, Selling to Women (or Women Selling!), Losing a large deal this week.  What have I learnt?, Negotiate and Mediate, Talk to a lot of People, Hang in there or get the hell out, Network Marketing (Multi Level Marketing), Genius, Interlude, Losing Sales through Prejudice, STOP!, He who hesitates, masturbates!, 86 Contact Bill,

 

The Lazy Salesman Nov 2002: For those who think selling is a dirty word, It starts to go well when you give up!, Matching, Sales Competencies I wish I had more of!, Sales Competencies, Pick your second and third level clients to contact first, Presentations, The Rollercoaster of Selling, Network, Netwok, Network, Is it an Acorn or a Rabbit Turd?, Enthusiasm and Passion, Life is too short to work with jerks!, Why Can’t Management Support Big and Easy, Sales Conmen, The Perfect Sales Team, P.A Advice, Humour, Convincer – Not!, Bloody Listen, Attributes of the Best Salesperson, The Best Salesperson, Monday Monday, Persisting, Letting Go, Make that Call, Getting to Talk to People, Selling Manifesto, Leaving a Message.

 

Saturday 30th November 2002

For those who think selling is a dirty word

If you have something good to offer, then why not tell the world about it!

 

I’m just putting together a new workshop for non-salespeople.

Those who think selling is dirty.

What you have to offer may be of value to other people, so why not tell them about it!

You may be of value, but people won’t know unless you tell them!

 

Friday 29th November 2002

It starts to go well, when you give up!

One of my heroes is Timothy Gallwey who wrote The Inner Game of Tennis.

He’s also written, The Inner Game of Golf, The Inner Game of Skiing, and now,

The Inner Game of Work, which is where this diagram is taken from.

What does it mean?

Simple.  The less you try to sell the more successful you are!

The graph is measuring the interest level of the buyer and how interested the salesperson thinks the buyer is.

At first the salesperson is overestimating the buyer’s interest.

Then the salesperson thinks the buyer is losing interest and as the salesperson starts to give up and not try so hard, the buyer becomes interested.

Good eh?

 

Thursday 28th November 2002

Matching

It’s always a good idea to match.

Match a CEO with your CEO,

Match a senior finance guy with your senior finance guy.

They can talk, have things in common beyond the business in hand.

 

I had this come up today when I was introducing a business owner to a business owner.

The salesperson wanted to talk to the business owner.

The opportunity was there for the business owner to talk to the business owner and then it didn’t feel like “selling”

Somehow, another person getting involved didn’t seem to quite cut it.

Sure the salesperson could have done a good job, but it would have been “selling”.

This way there’s a spirit there.

 

Wednesday 27th November 2002

Sales Competencies I wish I had more of!

Here’s a few I wish were stronger in.

See if you can beat them.

Authority, High Visibility, Political, Self Promoter, Delegation, Convincer, Teamplayer, Implementer, Task Completion, Company Citizen, Written Communication, Account Management.

Lord I’m bad!!

 

No wonder I don’t want to sell for a corporate again!!

Mind you if anyone reads this, they wouldn’t want to have me!

That doesn’t mean to say I can’t train people in these skills it’s just that I don’t readily take to them given the choice.

That’s why I’m happy doing what I do, because I don’t have to force myself to do these things which are often necessary in working for corporates.

 

Tuesday 26th November 2002

Sales Competencies

I’m just pulling together all the possible sales competencies.

Just for fun I’ve chosen the ones I have, not necessarily the ones you need to have!

Qualifying, Networking, Rapport, Questioning, Listening, Summarising, Tools Mastery, Creativity, Self-Educator, Prospecting, Tenacity, Integrity.

There’s a few more I wish I had!

Maybe tomorrow.

 

Sunday 24th November 2002

Pick your second and third level clients to contact first

If you have calls to make and you’re selling something new or re-contacting clients, pick on your second and third level clients first to practise what you’re saying.

It’s a bit like going to a job interview.

Don’t go for the interview of the job that you really want first.

Go to a few more other interviews with other companies you’re not so keen on so that you can practise being questioned and talking about yourself.

Mind you, I always end up liking the companies I’m practising with because I’m more relaxed.

 

Don’t screw up on your best clients.  Have a practise where you can do the least damage.

 

Saturday 23rd November 2002

Presentations

A fantastic piece by Doc Searls on good (and bad) presentations The Problem With Presentations

It’s really inspired me, especially looking at one of his own presentations.

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It’s very Tom Peters! and I like the idea of using headlines for each slide, and making each slide a masterpiece in its own right.

I’m not looking to build a single master slide set and then pick and choose for each presentation.

No more deleting of slides, just pick them from a master set and add new ones.

I love the simplicity of some of the slides which is what I’m working towards.

Also Doc’s style and design is so transparent.  You can see how he designs them and where he gets some of the material from.

It does rely on really knowing your subject and being a good Internet surfer.

 

Of course it reaffirms what I’m already doing in my presentations.

But it’s taking the next step up from being a good presenter to being a great presenter.

I’m beginning to know what I want to say, and I’d like to work some more on the style in which I say it.

 

Friday 22nd November 2002

The Rollercoaster of Selling

So for the last 2 weeks I’ve been on a down-curve, more with the activity then events.

And suddenly this week amazing things and contacts have happened and I’m on a real roll; an up-curve.

Enjoy it whilst it’s there.

 

Selling is like that, and the more time you’ve been in selling the more you smooth out the curves or at least react less sharply to the extremes of the curves.

The trouble is it means you don’t get as excited when things go well!

 

Thursday 21st November 2002

Network Network Network

Today I’ve networked like crazy.

It will pay off eventually.

In fact as a result of today, I may end up collaborating on a venture to do with Networking!!

 

Wednesday 20th November 2002

Is it an Acorn or a Rabbit Turd?

Taken from this month’s Fast Company magazine, you have to find 1000 acorns to grow an Oak tree.

Find 1000 suspect to turn in to 100 prospects to get 10 best few and 1 really big one.

Before you can find 1000 acorns you have to be able to distinguish between Acorns and Rabbit Turds.

In other words qualify.

 

I can think of a few Rabbit Turds I’ve come across over the last few days and weeks!

 

Tuesday 19th November 2002

Enthusiasm and Passion

For some strange reason my passion and enthusiasm are beginning to shine through when I’m talking to people.

Mind you I should be listening instead of talking, but sometimes I get so carried away with my enthusiasm.

It seems to be working and it’s not something I think about so much now, I just get on with it.  It flows naturally.

I don’t know what I’m doing and hope I’m doing it right.

In previous early years I was more thoughtful about selling, because I wasn’t passionate about the product.

It was more an intellectual sell, where now it’s a no brainer.

Nowadays I can go anywhere and choose to sell anything, where in the past I was restricted to product and limited on clients.

 

Yippee, the world is my oyster.

 

You can sell something you don’t believe in and it’s not morally wrong in that it’s up to the customer to decide what’s right for them.

You can’t lie about a product or service, but just because you don’t like something doesn’t mean someone else doesn’t.

Otherwise we’d all be the same people, in the same clothes, driving the same cars and using the same products.

 

Monday 18th November 2002

Life is too short to work with jerks!

I finally found part of the Tom Peters quote in one of his slides,

 

YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE YOUR CLIENTS! (Wanna be-stay-get COOL … Work With Cool Clients!)

(YOU ARE YOUR CLIENT LIST.)

(LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WORK WITH JERKS.)

(Mass marketers: TARGET INNOVATION. E.g.: African-Americans … Hispanics … the Aging Population … Greens … Women)

 

It’s inspired to go find some cool clients.

 

Oh, and finally got to see “The Office” over here.  First episode tonight on UK-TV, Foxtel Australia.

Very near the knuckle, and cringingly true.  In fact the first shot of the intro, I’ve worked in that office in Slough!

 

Sunday 17th November 2002

Why Can’t Management Support Big and Easy?

This Dilbert cartoon says it all.

Dilbert Comic Strip Archive - Dilbert.com - The Official Dilbert Website by Scott Adams - Dilbert, Dogbert and Coworkers!

 

Saturday 16th November 2002

Sales Conmen

Just watching a TV programme which films cheesy conning salespeople.

Security and Vacuum Cleaners selling to people in their houses.

Fear Uncertainty Doubt.

Giving selling a bad name.

The vacuum cleaner is £1400!!  Well that’s ok if it’s a considerably better vacuum cleaner.  But it’s probably not.

What I like is they offer you £200 for you old vacuum cleaner taking the price down to £1200.

It very difficult to think of this as a discount on an over inflated sum, but more a nice offer on your crappy old vacuum cleaner.

Nice one.

I have to admire these salespeople who can sell people things they don’t want.

I couldn’t do it. It a bit like these optical illusions.

 

It gives selling a bad name because people have the image that selling is about convincing people of something they don’t want.

Selling should be about value, but without manipulation.

I guess value is in the eye of the beholder and as long as people feel they have value, does it matter if they’ve been ripped off?

It’s a fine line isn’t it?

But watching a confused pensioner who’s been ripped off to the tune of a few thousand pounds is disgusting.

Selling is about making your target with integrity.  Integrity!

 

Friday 15th November 2002

The Perfect Sales Team

I was thinking the other day about what the perfect Sales team would look like.

Of course ideally it would consist of 10 star performers with 100% perfect 10 year track records.

 

So maybe it should be the realistic Sales team.

The first choice is whether to go for similarity or diversity.

Let’s have some fun with diversity.

 

The first general area to set is a prospecting culture.

Too many organisations and sales teams have lost the prospecting culture.

They get caught up in too many other wasteful areas.

And what I mean by a prospecting culture is not forcing people to go prospect but to set it up so that if six salespeople are good prospectors a seventh member joining the team will see that prospecting a key part of the culture, they accept it as the norm. 

After that, diversity can set in, whether it’s cold calling, networking, growing current clients bigger.

 

I’d like to see a mix of hunters and farmers.  Those that can go out and identify new business and those that can grow current prospects/clients.

I’d like some steady plodders who hit 100% every year and a few risk takers for the big ones.  But no bullshitters.

One of the challenges of a salesmanager is to manage diversity and not to have everyone in you own image which can be dangerous and limiting.

High prospecting does not mean being out of the office all the time. I don’t believe that many of these salespeople that you never see are out there doing a good selling job, because after all if you have prospects, you need to be emailing them, writing proposals, gaining support from your company, and besides, if you go for the right type of business you don’t need to be out there all the time, because you’re working on the well qualified big ones.

 

I’d consider pairing up a hunter with a farmer.  Let the hunter find the business, and let the farmer build the business case internally and externally and grow the business and complete it.  The two skills of hunting and farming are very different and rare to have both in salespeople, thought they like to think they’re good at both.

Qualifying is the second key to prospecting.  In fact it’s the first key; knowing which business to go after or to attract.

 

Competition.  I’m not a great believer in setting the team to compete against each other.  They should see themselves as all in it together to help each other make it.

Great sports teams are not competing against each other, they’re competing against another team. 

Team members in a successful sports team don’t usually brag to each other about what they’re achieving or what they’re getting paid.

Maybe an external competitor like another sales team or company can be seen as “The Competition” but I’m not sure on that one.

I’m a big sports competitor, but competing in selling has never been a great motivator to me.

I’m competing against myself, the limitations I set for myself and overcoming them.

 

No boring sales meetings delivering boring figures and facts.

Forget it.

Either sales meetings are fun, exciting and motivational or do away with them and go Go-Karting or something everyone enjoys.

 

I’d have weekly one to one reviews, and monthly reviews where other team members listen and advise each other.

Congratulation and recognition for those that need their egos massaging, and lots of help for those struggling and/or out of luck!

 

So the perfect sales team would have a strong qualifying and prospecting culture which everyone feels is the norm, so it’s not a case of people needing encouragement or training, it just happens.  A mix of hunters and farmers.  Plodders and Risk takers.  And a range of skills within the team, some good networkers who can get you to anyone, some good technical skills, a bit of rebelliousness in case we’re all heading in the wrong direction or up the wrong ladder.

 

It’s difficult to pick a team because I’d want people I like buying from, but my preferences aren’t what works for all client and customers.

Personally I like buying from fun, friendly, flawed, roguish type, and not the smooth professional “Salesman”

I’m more a Gary, Wayne, Robin, Peter, Terry, Lloyd, buyer than a  

Mike, Stuart, Kim, Nick, Anthony, Ian, Pam, type.

But that’s me.

 

Thursday 14th November 2002

P.A advice

This one has been sitting there for a while so I’d better write about it.

Just the idea that rather than seeing the P.A as the “gatekeeper”, they’re a great source of help.

Ask them how and when it’s best to contact the person you’re trying to get hold of.

They’re normally only too willing to help and give advice and opinion.

I must give this one a go, because my recent record of getting hold of people is terrible.

 

Wednesday 13th November 2002

Humour

I guess you could always use humour to sell.

Make em laugh!

The trouble is, what you think is humorous they might not!

Ever been sent a ton of jokes over the internet and found them all crap.

Ever sent a joke which you thought was the best ever and no-one else did.

I guess some people are universally funny, so you’d better model yourself on Charlie Chaplin or Mickey Mouse!!

 

Tuesday 12th November 2002

Convincer – Not!

You know what; I think I’m becoming quite a good convincer!

Never have been, but now I really believe in my product – ME!

Sometimes I get carried away and put my foot in it, but that’s because I’m passionate about what I believe in.

Nowadays, when they see the whites of my eyes they’ve seen so much crap out there, I often make a pleasant change.

Sometimes I talk too much and don’t listen.  That’s my passion!

I hope they can see that.

 

I had a great one the other day.

“Sorry Tony, we don’t want anything until next March at the earliest.  Now what was it you wanted to talk to me about?”

……”Hey that sounds good, I’d be interested.”

 

What has happened is that someone has shown me a need in the marketplace which is effectively like the feeding frenzy of fish in a barrel being fed, which I’ve written about before.  We’ve identified the barrel of fish, and now all I have to do is drop the food in.  There’s no convincing to do because the need is so great.

I’ve always thought this idea of identifying the need a bit passé but in pure marketing terms, this is finding the market/problem/need first and then supplying to that need.

 

Not everyone is in a position to do this because many salespeople work with a fixed product that has to go searching for a need.

I’m free to develop a product to meet an identified need.  I don’t have to develop the need.

Actually come to think of it, I’m still a terrible convincer; I’m just identifying the market so that I don’t need to do any convincing!

 

Monday 11th November 2002

Bloody Listen

This is how not to be with clients and customers.

 

A couple of months ago, I took a form down to my bank to have it signed and sent away.

The assistant manager there had a look at my form and asked me for my 2 years worth of bank statements.

I told him I don’t need 2 years worth of bank statements.  He insisted I did, otherwise he couldn’t guarantee a card.

I told him that if he looks in the new training manual which his people use and they showed me the week before it says I only need 6 months of bank statements.

Did he listen?  Did he hell.  So we had a blazing row in the main foyer of the bank.

In the end I bypassed this idiot and went to card services and dealt with the phone banking people who were very pleasant.

I got my card a few weeks later.

 

I lost my card, so I had the card blocked and ordered a new one.

A letter arrived last week telling me that the card had been dispatched to my local bank branch.

Ambiguously it said “Please note however, renewal cards can only be collected after 17 November 2002”

I took that to mean cards which were being renewed after a few years, and not replacement or new cards.

 

So I drove down to my branch 15 minutes there, 15 minutes back.

And guess who’s on the front desk controlling cards.  Yes the idiot from a few months ago.

I really didn’t want to deal with him, but all I had to do was show him the letter and ask for the card.

He looks at the letter and says. “The card isn’t here I just looked through them, besides the card isn’t with us until 17th November.”

I said, “No, I think that’s for renewal cards, mine is a replacement card.”

He replied, “Well it isn’t here come back after 17th November.”

 

So I drove home.  I thought some more about this, reread the letter and I was sure that the 17th November referred to renewal cards and not replacement cards.

After all you’d want to get a replacement card to someone as quickly as possible and not 3-4 weeks later.

I called the Commercial Card Division.  They confirmed that replacement cards are dispatched immediately and that mine had been dispatched to my branch last week.  They called my branch to confirm.  Yes, the card is there.

I was fuming.

I drove back to the branch, 15 mins there, 15 mins back.

The idiot was busy with other customers.

One of the other assistants helped me, I signed the form, received the card, and now I wanted to change my PIN.

We went to the front desk where the idiot stands.  He’s just telling the other customers that he’s the manager.

He notices my letter and realises he’d not found the card 30 minutes before.

“Someone must have misfiled it.”

My answer, “Or you don’t listen. This is the second time you’ve not listened to what I’m saying.”

 

And so our second row broke out in front of the whole branch.

Firstly he claims his was away 2 months ago when I suggested we had our first row.  Okay, so maybe it was 3 months ago.

Next he says he was acting on information that the head office gave him when he phoned them in my presence.  So of course it wasn’t his fault.

How come the branch people, me, and card services all worked together to get me a card then.

He apologised for not finding the card.

But still he wasn’t listening to what I was saying.

He seems to think the issue is with head office.  He seems to think the issue is with someone else misfiling the card.  He seems to think the issue is with me.

He’ll blame everything on everyone else except himself. 

His attitude is not one of the glass being half full and how can I help, or better still, how can we solve this problem together.

How can I help you get a card, let me look one more time because we should have received the card.

 

What this guy does is play by the rules (because he’s probably a newly promoted manager), except he doesn’t read the rules properly and acts like an authority on everything, when he isn’t.  It’s not that head office gave him the wrong information or that someone misfiled the card, but that he wasn’t listening.

He didn’t listen when I told him that his own documentation in the branch suggests I could have a card on 6 months worth of bank statements.

He didn’t listen when I said the letter refers to renewal cards and not replacement cards.

If he stopped to think, how can I help this customer, it doesn’t sound right that he’s waiting for a replacement card for 3-4 weeks, it must be here somewhere.

 

Bloody Listen.  I sure as hell wasn’t listening to him as we were rowing away!!

 

Sunday 10th November 2002

Attributes of the Best Salesperson

They make their target consistently.  That’s a pretty good measure but not always the only measure.

They network and can get to anyone and they’re always talking to people.

They can put the deal together and sell internally to their own company.

They pull resources together and have people who want to work with them.

They have a good technical grasp.  This isn’t essential but it’s a nice one to have.

They’re good at getting on with people.

I guess they schmooze and have chutzpah – they’re sweet talkers and they have cheek.

They don’t talk too much.  Again this is a nice to have but not essential.

 

I once listed the attributes of a salesperson and it came to over 50 different skills/attributes/competencies, and no-one could agree on what is most important.

I guess the best way is to look at who is good and ask yourself why are they so good.

Often it’s luck and sometimes it’s something else.  That extra special ingredient which loses its power if you try to isolate it or write about it or train people with it.

That’s the problem of sales training.  It tries to isolate the good practises of good salespeople but somewhere along the line the spirit of what is good selling is lost.

 

Maybe another way to look at it is, as a salesmanager, who would I want in my team?

And come to think of it I’d want different types of salespeople in my team.

 

Saturday 9th November 2002

The Best Salesperson

I’m having a think about who the best salesperson is I’ve known.

And why.

I’ll have a think about this one.

Sometimes I’ve seen people who are good and successful but I personally wouldn’t buy from them.

I guess it would have to be someone I liked.

I have a good idea who it is, now I have to think why he was good and if he was the best.

 

Friday 8th November 2002

Monday Monday

Just in idea this one.

I’ve noticed that as the week progresses the things I’m working on to send to people normally get completed at the end of weeks.

So therefore I send them on a Friday.

I was thinking of what someone does with an email or document that arrives on a Friday.

My guess is that unless they read and act on it immediately they put it off until Monday.

The trouble with that is that they may get snowed under with all the things that crop up that week.

The email or document has lost its sense of priority and urgency.  It becomes just something else to do.

If something new arrives that takes precedence.

 

Now if something arrives on a Monday, there’s a feeling that it has to be dealt with that week.

It stays near top of the pile because it’s entered into someone’s consciousness at the beginning of the week.

 

It’s just a thought.  I sent something today, Friday, and I’m wondering if it doesn’t have more impact on a Monday.

 

Thursday 7th November 2002

Persisting

And today having let go yesterday, my persistence paid off having finally got to speak today to all 4 people I’d been chasing.

What is it about today that they were all available and answering their phones?

 

Wednesday 6th November 2002

Letting Go

Today I stopped trying so hard and let go a bit and enjoyed my day more, eventually.

 

Tuesday 5th November 2002

Make that Call

There’s a call I should have made 6 months ago, to a guy that runs his own training company.

I spoke to him very briefly and said I’d call him back.

I never did, took a decision that I was having too many conversations with people who were in the same market place.

Lots of nice meetings, lots of mutual agreement, but competing in the same market place.

 

Met a guy last night who by stunning coincidence works with the guy I should have phoned.

That business could have been mine.  At about the same time as I called 6 months ago.

Damn.  You can’t get it all right, but the one I really chose to not pursue could have paid off!!

 

What do learn from this?  Make those calls!

 

Monday 4th November 2002

Getting to Talk to People

I don’t have the answer to this one right now, but it’s damn frustrating to have 100% of calls not answered, but on a voicemail, P.A., not in, busy etc.

I don’t want to leave a message, because they might not get back to me, and what is so compelling that they will return the call.

I know, I know, all about calling early or late when they’re likely to be in, and leaving a message that hooks them, or asking the P.A how best to help me.

But right now, I just want to talk to them.  It’s not as though they’re cold calls, mostly.

It tempts me to send emails, but my experience suggests people are crap at responding to emails.

I can make and email more compelling and more considered with the message, but people don’t seem to be responding to email anymore.

 

What to do?

 

Sunday 3rd November 2002

Selling Manifesto

I just read my Selling Manifesto again on Friday.

Someone had asked me for some material and tips on selling.

I didn’t know what to send and then realised I’d already written this months ago.

Rather good though I say so myself!

 

Friday 1st November 2002

Leaving a Message

The general rule is don’t leave a message for someone you’re trying to contact.

It puts the ball in their court and leaves you waiting for them to call back, and they might not.

Believe me, I never learn my lesson.  I’ve left a message for someone recently, and they haven’t called me back.

Now what do I do.  If I call back I’m being pushy.

The trouble is the reception, P.A or colleagues begin to recognise your voice if you call up 10 times over 3-4 days to see if their in.

 

On the other hand I’m beginning to realise that maybe I don’t want to do business with people who don’t return their phone messages or emails.

To hell with them.  If they were interested or polite to do business with they’d call back.

Amazing that those who are most successful and very busy, still return calls and emails.

Some don’t get it do they.

I’m amazed at how often I can do people some serious damage in their business and careers by the other people I bump into in their sphere’s of influence.

I don’t often stick the knife in, but I’m hardly going to praise them, am I.