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The Lazy Salesman in Jan 2002, The Worst Customers I Ever Had, Fill the Funnel, Negotiation, Collecting NOs, Thinking Time, Number 76 of my Selling Manifesto, Change Now!, Sales Job Interviews, Fail, Cluetrain, Action, The Perfect Customer, Integrity, Closing, Objection Handling, Summarising, Objectives, Rapport, Networking, Decisiveness, Qualifying.

The Lazy Salesman in Feb 2002,  Thinking  Aloud, Positioning, Honesty, Move On, Practising what I Preach?, Doing the Business – Networking, Issues and Personal Wins, Small Acorns, 4:2 Rule, Conscious Competence, Question, Listen, and Summarise, Sales Teams, Hunters and Farmers, The Competition, The Truth about Selling!, What’s in it for Me? (WIIFM), The Best Salespeople I know, Presenting, Calling High, Networking Again, Birthday – Ghost Story, Little Things make a Big Difference, Difficult Customers, Prospecting, Hot (Cheesy) Tips, What Irritates me as a Client.

The Lazy Salesman in March 2002; Who Wouldn’t I Work For?, Sex Sells, End Users, Cheesy Closes, High Risk or Low Risk, High Level Contacts, The Hook, Contact K.I.T., Pricing, Risk, Contracts, Selling Something You Don’t Believe In, Corporate DNA, Good News, Rejection, Calling High Level Contacts, Good Days and Bad Days, In the Client’s Shoes (The Observers learn the most), Advance not Continuation.

The Lazy Salesman in April 2002; Wait and They Did Come!!, Persist or Walk Away, Prospecting from Cold, Wait and They will come!, Stamina, Involve the Audience, One Thing Each Day, Luck, Good Selling Organisations, Be your Word, Be Honest with Yourself, More Corporate DNA and Zipf’s Law, Smile, Exceed Expectation, Shut Up Tony, Cardbox, Grassroots Selling, Persist and Have a Dream,  Pick an Onerous Task, Guilt, Style, Good Will, Mind Expanding Questions!, Tenacity and Lunch, Recovering Lost Momentum, Competing Customers, Selling Pranks.

 

The Lazy Salesman in June/May 2002: Contact, Resource Availability Close, Hardware Store, SPACER, My own Call Reluctance, Greetings and Handshakes, How much to you care?, Advancing after a Good Meeting, What Goes Around Comes Around, Concept to Cash, The Perfect Supplier, Follow-Up, All Talk and No Product, Elio the Photographer, Battles and Wars, Dissatisfied Customer, Crooks, Exhibition Leads, Small Acorns Conversations, The P.A font of all Knowledge, Practising What I Preach, Don’t Let Things Drift, Human Touch, Dreams Really Do Come True, Find Your Market.

 

Friday 31st May 2002

Contact

Just running an Account Planning day today, for 4 selling teams.

It reminds me that Account Planning is about setting the actions and more importantly doing them.

Also, it’s about thinking broader and higher about the account you’re selling to, and creatively think about where there is more business.

 

But at the end of the day it’s usually about Contact.

Developing a Contact Plan and then Just Do It.

Get out there and contact people based on your contact plan, and keep doing it.

 

Thursday 30th May 2002

Resource Availability Close

One close which isn’t so cheesy, is the Resource Availability Close, which providing you’re telling the truth is a good type of close.

Something along the lines,

“This resource is only available in 2 weeks time, for 4 weeks after that.  If you want this resource, you need to agree to it this week.”

Sounds good in practise, but having tried it over the last few weeks with my time booking up and warning a few people they need to book me now to avoid disappointment, I hear nothing back or complacency.  But I really am booked up now until the end of August now, and these guys haven’t come back to me.  So now it will have to be September.

They won’t be pleased and I may lose business, but they didn’t believe me or act on my warning about my availability.

What am I supposed to do?

So much for The Resource Availability Close!

 

Wednesday 29th May 2002

Hardware Store

Another good point yesterday.

When you go into a hardware store, the people there are knowledgeable and ask you questions to find out what you want.

That’s how you want it to be as a customer.

Salespeople with knowledge who bother to find out exactly what it is you want by listening to you and then advising you.

Good selling should be like a Hardware Store.

 

Tuesday 28th May 2002

SPACER

Here’s one today I heard.

People buy on SPACER.

 

Safety

Performance

Affordability

Comfort

Economy

Reliability

 

Are buying criteria in SPACER varies with age, so that at different ages we have different prioritises.

Price doesn’t come into it.  Affordability isn’t about price so much as can we afford it, and what proportion of our income will we devote to it, or even go into debt over it.

 

Monday 27th May 2002

My own Call Reluctance

I train people in overcoming their Sales Call Reluctance.

Reluctance to make sales calls, and what holds us back.

Sales Call Reluctance is infectious, in that people with it, infect others.

Sales Managers recruit in their likeness.

Sales Trainers infect others with their own reluctant beliefs.

 

I’ve been tested twice for Sales Call Reluctance, and I was sitting in observing a course last week.

It was a good reminder of my own Call Reluctance, and a check of if I’m infecting others when I’m training.

Two of the twelve types of Call Reluctance that I’m most likely to display, are Yielder and Social Self-Conscious.

Yielder is reluctance to close.  It’s true.  I don’t like to push too much, and close people down.

I try to nice them into it.  Fear of being unreasonable.  Or I find nice ways to close, or use humour.

And it’s true; I do infect the people I train against closing.

I’ve never had to close much myself.  As long as I advance with clients and progress the relationship and sale it seems to work out.

But there is a danger that I fail to close and I put others off from closing.

 

Social Self-Conscious is interesting.  It’s Call Reluctance around people one sees as being of a different class, or more knowledgeable, or senior.

Whilst I don’t believe I have it strongly, it’s interesting to note that I think it’s an obsession of selling to make salespeople call high.

Call on senior decision makers.  And maybe I rail against it because I have Social Self-Conscious Call Reluctance.

And maybe it’s not that I have Social Self Conscious Call Reluctance, more that I’m an Over-Preparer, hesitating to call on senior people until I’ve done my research or networked to them properly. 

 

So maybe I’m one of the other 12 types which is Over-Preparer!

 

Sunday 26th May 2002

Greetings and Handshakes

The Brits don’t greet each other that much in the mornings.

The French say hello to everyone in the office; so I’m told.

 

You want to have a powerful effect on people?

Greet them!  Shake their hands.  Touch them.  Ask them how they are.

As it says below; show how much you care.

Remember their name by repeating it back to them.

Make sure you use eye contact, and hold your eye contact, not just a quick glance (like I do all too often!).

 

Shake hands.  Not too sloppy like a wet fish, and not too firm.

Don’t worry about sweaty palms.  Believe it or not, most people don’t notice your sweaty palms, just cold hands.

 

First impressions aren’t as important as is sometimes made out, but it can sure help.

When I’m running a course, I try to remind myself to greet each person as they first come into the room, shake hands, eye contact, and introduce myself.

I wish I did it more consistently and often.

It makes a good start when meeting people.

Of course, the most powerful thing you can do with people is remember their name and something about them for next time you meet them.

 

Thursday 23rd May 2002

How much do you care?

“No one cares how much you know, until they know how much you care.”

 

Enough said.

 

Wednesday 22nd May 2002

Advancing after a Good Meeting

So many people have good meetings with each other but nothing happens after.

Why is that?

What a waste of time.

 

Make sure that during and after a meeting, especially a good one, that you have a proper follow-up, an action on both parties, a decision.

An advance of the situation rather than a continuation.

I look back especially recently to the good positive meeting I have, or people with mutual interest, and nothing happens.

It’s a reminder to myself to concentrate on Advancing, Networking, and getting that cardbox of people going on rotation.

 

Tuesday 21st May 2002

What Goes Around Comes Around

There’s some pretty nasty people out there.

In fact there’s some pretty do nothing and procrastinate people out there.

 

It’s a bit like when you go for an interview, they really like you, they’re about to offer you the job, but budgets or a change delays them for 6 months.

Do they come back to you?  Do they say, this guy was great, we went through all the trouble to choose someone let’s call them up?

No, they start the whole process all over again.

 

If you’re a baddy, word gets around, and it catches up with you usually (hopefully!)

I was working in Perth Australia last week, and the people on the course were telling me that everyone know everyone, so you can’t afford to have a bad business reputation, or piss someone off, because word travels fast in Perth.

 

You want to hear what they were saying about one salesperson who’s name came up several times!!

 

Clean your act up, and in the long run earn more and satisfy more people.

Oh, but I forgot, “Greed is Good”

 

Monday 20th May 2002

Concept to Cash

Just listening to a CD about developing I.T projects and why so many fail.

Mostly they just concentrate on installing the I.T instead of the whole project and pay-off.

 

They used the phrase “Concept to Cash”

Looking at the whole project from correctly conceiving and defining a project right through to managing the cash pay-off which can be used as a measure of success.

 

I like it.  It reminded me of focusing on the benefits of a solution and not getting stuck with the advantages.

Sales training should ultimately be about helping people to sell more and bigger things in the right timeframe.

Making your target with integrity; and training/helping you to do that more effectively.

 

Sunday 19th May 2002

The Perfect Supplier

It’s easy to criticise but maybe more positive to suggest suppliers who are good.

First Direct  I’ve banked with First Direct for over 10 years.  The were the first telephone bank in the UK (I think).

Their aim from the start was to be different, rather than dress up the same old crap that most banks offer.

Even though they’re a part of HSBC(Midland) they seemed to have been allowed to do what they wanted.

I love them.  I’ve only once had a person who wasn’t perfectly polite, and that says a lot for a call centre in 10+ years.

They follow an intro script, but after that, there’s a real personal touch.

 

easyjet You get what you pay.  But it’s good value for money, and you can see that they think about the business and how to keep changing it and take nothing for granted.  Same with VirginBlue here in Australia.

 

Talking of Virgin.  I’m not sure that I’d trust Richard Branson or Virgin, but at least they try to make a difference, especially in markets that take their customers for granted.

 

The best car I’ve ever had, was my MKIV Golf GTi 1.8T.  It oozed quality.  A complete joy.  The engineering side of VW has definitely got it right.

 

Camden Bus my Camden Estate Agent who I bought my flat from, and then sold it though them 2 years later.  Great guys, down to earth, and honest!

If you hate Real Estate Agents then check out Gary and Charles.

 

Similarly, Main Streets Sports in Breckenridge Colorado.  People you can talk to.

 

Millers Restaurant in Melbourne and Kellys Restaurant in Sydney.  Both Steak Houses, both run by South Africans.  The owners visit each table during your meal and actually sit and talk to you!

 

John Lewis (and Waitrose) in the UK have a great look and feel to the shop.  A massive stockholding, competitive pricing, and they did offer 5 year warranties on many electrical goods, which was better than the manufacturer outlets like Sony.  You don’t think it’s also because they’re not beholden to shareholders do you?

 

www.ciao.com website.  Great philosophy, great website.

 

www.friendsreunited.co.uk Great philosophy, great website.

 

www.google.com  Just so fast and easy to use and they maintain their integrity in this dog eat dog world.

 

www.amazon.com  They sell books and they make it interesting.  They’re continually adding new experiences like booklist, reviews, recommended reads, to make book buying and reading an exciting experience.

 

So what do they all have in common.  Integrity, genuine customer focus, value, honesty, they’re trying to make a difference by doing it better than the old way, personal touch, quality, function and performance.  And they all seem to have fun branding.  Branding that you recognise and cheers you up, rather than hides a mess and acts as a carpet to sweep things under.  Camden Bus Estate Agents work out of a red London Bus and take people round in a black taxi they own.  That’s fun.

 

The problem is that many companies put all these words into their mission statements and it means nothing. 

But all these guys actually display it from the bottom upwards.

 

Saturday 18th May 2002

Follow-Up

Wouldn’t it be great if the people you’d bought something from, called you up to see how things were going.

The retailer, the Real Estate agent, the car supplier, The Telcos, The Banks, the everyone you buy something from.

Just to see how things are going.  No hidden agenda, no attempt to sell something else.

 

The fear is that people would complain.  So just listen.

So there’s an idea.  Call the customers both recent and past who you’ve sold something to, and see how they’re doing.

Simple really.  Can you imagine how much business it would create in the future if you did that.

 

I’m getting just a bit behind with my follow-ups of the people I’ve recently trained, so it’s a reminder to myself to make sure I do it.

 

Friday 17th May 2002

All Talk and No Product

Went to my personal bank today to try and open a business account.

My current business account doesn’t enable me to use anything other than a cheque book.

The bank assistant seems to have recently had “Customer Awareness Training”.

She has a deskpad with all the ways to treat the customer.  Except she’s not listening to me.

Two hours later, I come away with everything but what I went in for – A business account with debit and credit card facilities.

I’ve had my personal account updated (fine)

I’ve filled in a few boxes and then been shown that my brick wall of security is too low and lets get a financial advisor to call me tell me how to make my money work.

And the biggest joke is that one of the business accounts needs to have $10,000 in it to not carry transaction charges.

The interest earned on the $10k for me, is something like 2%, leaving the bank to rake in the other 3%+ on my $10k, just for the honour of me not having transaction charges.  They’re robbing bastards. 

And they want to advise me on how to make best use of my money but they want me to have 10k sitting there doing nothing.

How stupid do they think we are? Stupid enough to come up with enough confusing options to look like mobile phone agreements with their array of confusing options based upon estimates of usage you can’t predict. 

How the hell do I know how many transactions I’ll have in a month?

 

And the point is….They’re all talk and no product.

Not just no product but it’s just words.

They’re not really listening.

This is from the bank where the CEO interviewed just over a week ago, must have said “shareholder value” at least ten times.

I’m a customer and not a bloody shareholder.  I’d like to see them have “shareholder value” with no customers.

Oh, and I have to put a business plan together and a cash flow.  This isn’t for a loan you know, it’s for a credit card.

Meanwhile somewhere else at the other end of the universe they’re dishing the credit cards out to someone who will screw them.

 

It’s all well and good having good sales slick sales skills, but if the product is shit, and the senior management are crap, it doesn’t matter how much you train the ground troops.

 

Are you listening Westpac and Telstra?

Where’s the Customer Value?

 

Thursday 16th May 2002

Elio the Photographer

Just like Abe the insurance guy, Elio the Photographer is a pleasure to do business with.

Why?

He did our wedding photos, and we finally went back to him today to choose the photos we want.

He was great to work with on the day.

In fact the photos and driving along in the wedding car were my favourite parts of the wedding, surprisingly.

Firstly, he listens.  He may not agree, but he listens.

Like my own selling style, he turns the big tanker slowly if he wants you to move in a different direction.

As he said himself, no hard sell.

Funnily enough he used to be in sales!

He’s patient and he takes his time and gave us time.

He guided us but didn’t tell us.

He remembers things about us.

Of course he was with us for most of the day at our wedding, but it was 18 months ago.

I get the impression he has a pride in his work and isn’t just in it for the money.

 

And finally, he asked my what work I did and he gave me a contact because I remind him of someone he does some work for.

So he’s a great networker as well.

Elio, I owe you one. (Great isn’t it, I’m paying through the nose for the photos, and I’m left feeling I owe him a favour!)

He’s good!

 

Wednesday 15th May 2002

Battles and Wars

Know when to fight and when to smile with grace.

Today I smiled and was graceful, even though I was spoiling for a fight.

I realised it wasn’t worth it, to upset the customer.

I’m glad I let it go.

Lose the battle and win the war.

 

Actually, that’s a good part of negotiation.

Not of course that you should see negotiation in terms of battles and wars!!!

Joint problem solving!

 

Tuesday 14th May 2002

Dissatisfied Customer

Once you have dissatisfied and lost a customer, it’s very difficult to win them back.

Telstra my ISP and phone company have really pissed my off, several times.

Now they’re starting to call me up to check if the last problem was fixed.

But they’ve lost me already.

They’d have to move heaven and earth to win me back.

 

I’m just about to move my website to a more reliable supplier (I hope).

What customers like is consistency.

They’ll stay on the same contract for years even if it starts to become a bad deal, just as long as they have the convenience and consistency of having to change.

What Telstra have consistently done is upset steady paying customers.

In fact they make it difficult to pay on this broadband account, by not offering direct payment from bank to Telstra (known as BPAY in Australia).

They changed my agreement midstream.

Fine, but it upsets the status quo.

Customers like the status quo.  They’ll pay extra for it.

 

I’m just reading a marketing book, and one of the key principles of building a customer base is commitment and consistency.

There is no consistency with the marketing of Telstra Broadband.

They chop and change.

And therefore so does the customer base, including me.

 

Sunday 12th May 2002

Crooks

Why are there crooked people in this world?

What goes through the mind of someone defrauding someone else?

 

I was just reminded of this when thinking of a fellow salesperson who apparently took lots of orders from customers, promised them free equipment if they signed but didn’t tell his employer.

He appeared a superhero for taking so many orders, but in fact he was defrauding everyone.

Is that the way he saw things?

 

It reminds me of salespeople who look the part but aren’t actually selling.

They can get away with it for years without actually doing anything.

 

Saturday 11th May 2002

Exhibition Leads

I have never ever got a sale from an exhibition lead or from being at an exhibition.

Mind you, I’ve never been contacted by anyone after leaving my name with an exhibitor.

If marketing ever come to me and say they have some leads for me from an exhibition, I tend to dump them in the bin!

Exhibitions just give marketing people something to do, budget to spend, and leads apparently generated.

Nowadays, I’m more open to seeing the leads as networking opportunities, but my experience has taught me to see exhibition leads as the lowest form of contact.

Usually because some poor soul looked in the wrong direction and was coerced into signing on the dotted line.

 

I’ve always hated exhibitions.  Maybe it’s the introvert in me.

Everyone appears false, hyped up, there are very few interested clients, and it seems to be a display competition.

Marketing people are obsessed with exhibitions, and sales feel they have to be there if the competition are there.

But really, what are they for.  They certainly, from, my experience don’t generate any business.

Or if they do, it’s not a very efficient form of business generation.

 

My worst ever selling experience happened at a sort of exhibition.

We were taking a mobile exhibition around hospitals.  A big artic truck with computer demos on it.

The people from the hospital we were parked at each came on to the truck to be bored rigid with our boring demonstrations.

I was at the entrance to the truck, greeting people and asking them to sign the guest book so we knew who had attended.

I’d been getting bored with asking the somewhat unwilling punters to sign the guest book, so I turned it into to a joke, asking them to “Sign on the Dotted Line”,

And striding my way across the car park, was the one person you dread at any hospital.

Every hospital has one.  He wears a bow tie.  That’s the first warning.  He’s an obnoxious arrogant pig.  That’s another clue.

It's the know it all bullying consultant who sits on every committee and claims to know everything about everything.

They think they’re God.

And here was this hospital’s one striding my way.

“Good Morning” I said, “ Please can you sign on the dotted line.”

“What?”

“Please can you sign the guest book, so that we know who’s been to the demonstrations.”

“Are you saying I can’t come on the truck unless I sign the guest book?”

“No, but please can you sign the guest book.”

And with this he turned on his heels and stormed back into the hospital.

Never to be seen again, but making damn sure he got himself on the committee that chose the Patient Admin System they procured for a few months later.

Of course we didn’t win that one.

 

I guess when God is visiting you, you shouldn’t ask him to sign the guest book, but bow and pray!

 

Exhibitions.  Avoid them like the plague.  Think of the time and money spent at those peacock displays, and how the time could be better used.

You could have 5 people locked away for 3 days generating more solid leads than damn exhibitions.

 

Friday 10th May 2002

Small Acorn Conversations

I was just thinking today how some of my biggest most successful sales came from something said in passing by the client.

I can think of one situation, where late afternoon the client happened to say, they’re thinking of what to do with their application software.

I asked them what they thought they were going to do, and it became apparent very quickly that their only choice was to take the software from my company.

He suggested this, not me.

 

If this was the case, I suggested, then wouldn’t you need to put it on a hardware platform that would support the software for at least 5 years?

And wouldn’t you need a network of servers and PCs to access the central system.

And we’re doing a special offer on the system software.

So from one casual comment, one evening about what they were doing with the application software, it grew and grew and grew into a large contract for lots of things.

 

And what I’m trying to say here, is that it’s amazing how from small conversations, big Oak trees grow.

This doesn’t mean you should go for small difficult acorns, but be aware of the possibility of things growing big from nothing.

It’s true of life as well.  Have a look at how you got here today, and the situation you are in now.

What happened years ago, that brought you here to your situation today.

Usually, a single comment made in passing, about a job being available, or about a person you fancied, or an invite to something.

I’m guessing that the more acorns you seed, the more times you flap the butterfly wings, the greater the chance of something amazing growing out of it.

 

Thursday 9th May 2002

The P.A font of all Knowledge

Someone on the course made a great point today.

P.As are a great source of knowledge and contacts and should be a key part of a contact plan.

I never really thought of it that way.

 

What I’ve always hated reading about is “Getting Past the Gatekeeper” etc.

It’s kind of patronising.

 

But the thought of client P.As and secretaries being good networking sources and someone to bounce ideas off, is a good point.

It’s true; they should be a key part of a contact plan for who you’re going to contact at the client company.

 

Wednesday 8th May 2002

Practising What I Preach

I have a meeting today with a State Manager of the company I’m delivering training to this week.

It’s interesting to write down what process I’m going through to see what I do.

Firstly, what is it I want to achieve?

I’d like the option to be coming to Perth every other month to deliver training.

And whilst I think about it my stretch objective is to come to Perth every other month and deliver several training courses over 1-2 weeks.

 

So what do I need to do in order to achieve that?

Well actually, as long as I come away from the meeting today with the attendees at least neutral or better then I’ll be happy with that.

Let the training and feedback speak for itself.

 

Am I writing a call plan?  I am now by writing this!

What shall I take with me?

The training material, which is excellent, and some backup material to show other work I do.

 

I don’t see this as a selling meeting, even though some would argue I’m selling myself.

It’s just a meeting, part of an overall relationship with the clients.

Let’s second-guess what they want from the meeting.

They want reassurance that I talk the same language and won’t embarrass them by training their staff.

There will be some key business points they want to get over.

They’ll want to review the material a bit and get a feel for it.

They’ll want to see success and payback from the training.

 

I don’t want to over anticipate the situation.  Ask about it and see what happens.

That’s it.  I have no masterplan, other than bearing my objective and stretch in mind, and let’s see what develops.

I’m not even looking for new areas or to grow it.  I’d rather do a good job of what I’m doing, and keep that consistently going.

 

In fact the best thing I can do is tell them what I’m looking for and see if that fits in with what they want.

 

…….and guess what?  That’s more or less exactly how the meeting went.  I talked too much as per usual, getting over excited and wanted to demonstrate my vast knowledge!

We seemed to get on.  In sales terms I didn’t ask enough about the business and how they want to grow and what problems they have that need resolving.

But then again I wasn’t selling.  Just interested in meeting the guys and comparing it with the other cities I’ve trained.

I’m seeing them tomorrow and it looks like we have a similar outlook on things.

Most importantly I told them I was looking for more business with them and they said as long as the course delivers then fine.

 

Tuesday 7th May 2002

Don’t Let Things Drift

Don’t let things drift even with your best clients.

I was just thinking this right now, that I must contact the people who I have no reason to speak to over the next few weeks, just to check everything is ok.

Wouldn’t it be wonderful if your bank or real estate agent or garage or insurer or Telco, just called to see how things are!

Usually, you can’t call often enough.

We often think we’re intruding, but put yourself in the customers’ shoes and imagine how great it would be if suppliers called long after they’d sold you something to check how things are going.

 

Monday 6th May 2002

Human Touch

I just received an invitation to a seminar today.

Sounds good, but this has really irritated me.

I don’t know who the person is who’s invited me or how they’ve got my email address.

But that’s not the main source of my irritation.

 

I’m being invited to a 2 day training seminar to learn something I’m already accredited to train in.

In other words, I should be running the seminar, not attending it!!

And it seems to have come via a person associated with the company I was talking to nearly 6 months ago about running their seminars for them.

Now perhaps it’s my fault for not Keeping In Touch, but how many emails and calls do you have to make before you say, I don’t want to work with this organisation.

I sent 2 emails and made all the running to work with this company.

They have to give something and they didn’t.

I reckon it’s cost them business, because the companies I’m now talking to may be interested in their product, but What’s In It For Me?

 

Why is it so difficult to answer emails? 

What do you all do with your emails?

They sit in your email box, and either you answer them, or you delete them, or they sit there for months demanding a reply.

I can’t see any other option unless you block them or automatically file them without reading them into folders.

 

You have to largely make a conscious decision to delete an email from me, asking how things are.

It’s a test, a qualifying test I must subconsciously set organisations and people to see if I want to work with them.

Why would I want to work with someone who won’t answer an email or phone call?

If it’s difficult now to be in touch with them, how difficult is it going to be in the future?

And what does it say about their values?

Ah look there’s an email from Tony, I’ll delete it.

It’s not as though this is from people who I’ve never had contact with.

This has happened with a few organisations who have meetings with me, appear to love me, want to do business with me and then nothing.

These are selling organisations who aren't practising what they preach.  It's disgusting.

I don’t care if the business is lean right now.  That’s no excuse for deleting my emails.

How do you know what companies I’m now talking to who would love your products?

But you can’t be bothered to reply, or you don’t deem it important enough for your time.

Fine, but word travels fast and to many people.

I strongly believe more and more that the way one person behaves and the way they behave just once, will largely reflect how they are and the rest of their organisation.

I always believe in giving someone or company a second chance, but how often do you have to bang your head against the wall before you say enough and move on.

 

When I first I arrived here in Australia, the people I first contacted had first call on my services.

It’s their loss now because I am developing Luxury of Choice, where I decide what I work on.

I can almost pick and chose, and I’m gaining more and more contacts who could have helped these companies I first talked to.

 

What have I learnt from all this?

I had 2 meetings last week which seemed to go well.

That isn’t enough for me now.  I want and Advance, not a continuation.

I want to know how we maintain the contact and momentum.

I say it up front, and it seems to be proving fruitful.

 

And as for this seminar/training workshop, I’m going to find out what the hell is going on and why I’ve been invited.

 

Sunday 5th May 2002

Dreams Really Do Come True

They do.

I dreamt of training in Perth, Western Australia, and here I am 6 months later, training in Perth.

I wanted another big training contract, and it looks like this week I’ve got one.

I wanted to meet a good networker, and it looks like this week I’ve found someone who knows lots of people.

 

Set your Selling Dreams, however unrealistic they are, and watch them come true.

I am amazed at how often these things happen.

I’d eased off waiting for good luck and fortune, and the work I’ve done months ago is paying off now.

 

Have a look at some of your sales and success and you’d be amazed how small events set off a big sale or success.

What small butterfly wing flapping (Chaos Theory) can you do this coming week, which may set off big events in the future?

Who could you talk to this week, which may set off a big event in the future?

 

Wednesday 1st May 2002

Find Your Market

I don’t get it that some people will con and rip and steal from others.

I just heard the story of a guy in his fifties who sold his scams by going to dancing classes.

He charms the older ladies there into signing up for his scams.

When you think about it it’s quite funny.  A guy learns to dance, and then starts cruising dance classes pretending he can’t dance and charming all the old dears.  Brilliant!! I can just see it as a film with Michael Caine in the Dirty Rotten Scoundrel mould.

This lacks integrity though.  Actually I only heard part of the story on a preview last night.  Here’s the real story, it’s fantastic.

 

But is does make a point that I just read in a book I bought yesterday Multiple Streams of Internet Income – Robert Allen

1. Who is your target audience?

2. What do they want?

3. How can you motivate this target audience to act now?

(I can’t stop thinking of the con guy in the dance classes with the elderly ladies!)

Most beginning marketers spend 90% of their time creating the perfect product and 10% of their time finding a perfect audience.  The secret is to reverse the ratio: Spend 90% of your time finding the right audience.  I call this finding hungry fish.  I prefer to find a school of fish in a feeding frenzy.  If you drop your bait (advertising) into such a school of hungry fish, they will attack the bait (ad) – even if it’s written by an amateur.”

 

This has made me think about looking for the market first rather than having the product.

I’ve talked about Abe Grauman before who sells insurance.  After our daughter was born, Abe sent us a copy of the Birth Notice framed, with congratulations, and then followed up with a phone call.  He knows his market.  Parent who have just had their first baby may be looking for more insurance cover.  He was right.  He came for a dance with the old ladies (us) but in this case he wasn’t conning us, just  “finding the right audience”